Friday, January 27, 2012

Nikhil's Mundan

On January 14th, Nikhil had his mundan ceremony. For those of you that need a little bit of education on what a mundan is, here it a description from BabyCenter:

"Tonsuring (mundan) is an important ceremony in Hindu communities. Muslims too shave or trim the baby’s hair. Some Sikhs perform kesi dahi ceremony – equivalent to the mundan ceremony performed by Hindus -- by putting curd in the hair of the newborn baby boy.

Among Hindus, the mundan ceremony (also known as Chaula or Choodakarana) is performed during the first year or in the third year of a child’s life. The first haircut is an important ritual and it is believed that shaving the hair rids the child of his past life's negativity. Some believe that a mundan bestows a long life, a better future and also protects the child from the evil eye. In some communities, the hair on a newborn’s head is considered impure and it is believed that only a mundan can cleanse the child’s body and soul.

Some believe that a mundan helps release excess body heat and keeps the baby's head cool. Some also believe that a mundan helps relieve headache and pains associated with teething. It is also a common belief that shaving off the hair stimulates cells and improves blood circulation, which may help in the growth of better and thicker hair."

We hired a barber to come to our home who performed the mundan ceremony. Being the person who hates anyone touching his hair or wearing hats, he wasn't too pleased with someone cutting his hair but he was trooper: 


We were all so worried how he'd look after his mundan, but he was as adorable and cheerful as ever. He reminded me of a little Buddhist monk:


Afterwards, the proud Dadaji and Dadiji hosted a luncheon at Star of India restaurant.  He was the star of the event in his cute outfit.  Here is is with his adorable cousin, Rijul who had her own Mundan down last October:


Monday, January 9, 2012

Where do they learn these things?

It's amazing what kids learn at such an early age. After watching his mommy and daddy on their smart phones, Nikhil now grabs our phones and begins tapping away at the touch screen as we would do.  He has no idea what's he's tapping but he taps away anyways. He also loves the phone.  He knows that sounds will emit after pressing the buttons.  Recently he even puts the phone to his ear and has imaginary conversations.

Nikhil talking to ???
It's amazing how fast kids pick up technology.  He's fascinated with pressing buttons and turning knobs.  Do we have an engineer in the making?

Thursday, January 5, 2012

Merry Xmas and Happy New Year!

First of all, I can't believe the holidays are over (insert sad face). We've started taking down our holiday decorations.  Only the sad, lonely tree remains. But what a great holiday season it was. We celebrated at the home of Roger and Maya Arora on Christmas Eve followed by a wonderful dinner on Christmas Day at Mom, Papa, and Nitasha Bhua's home. There was good food, good music, and great company.  Of course, Nikhil got spoiled the most for Christmas.  Can a kid ever have too many toys? As a parent, I say yes although I'm sure Nikhil will disagree.

We took Nikhil's Santa picture on Christmas Eve (yes, this was the last day to take pictures):

Nikhil and Santa Claus
And yes, he kept the hat on! He did surprisingly well. He didn't noticed that he was in Santa's lap initially.  We kept him preoccupied while his pictures were taken so he wouldn't turn around. After the last picture was taken, he suddenly turned around and saw who was hold him.  In about 0.324 seconds, he went for a content little boy to a screaming, raging, out-of-control child. Luckily, we got the pictures we wanted.  Although, I must say we didn't care much for this year's Santa Claus.  We'll let the pictures explain why.

In between Christmas and New Years, Nikhil and I paid a visit to California once again where he got a chance to visit his Nanaji, Naniji, Masi Raj, and Mama Tej for a couple of days. He's still afraid of his Mama Tej but we're working on it.

Then it was New Years Eve. We celebrated at the home of Raj & Anjli Giri with a little more than a dozen other people.  The setting and atmosphere was perfect.  Nikhil went to bed early in his pack n' play and we enjoyed the rest of the night with great friends.  So hard to believe that 2011 is over.  But here's wishing to a better and brighter 2012.  Our 2012 wish is for new additions to the family in the form of husbands (ahem, Masi and Bhua) and maybe even babies. Above all, we wish all our family and friends good health and prosperity!

Happy 2012!

Love, Kunal, Navi & Nikhil